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You’ve just been hurt deeply by someone you care about!Even when ultimately it’s nobody’s fault and nobody has been wronged, break ups hurt and we get angry at the people who hurt us. Here’s the seeming paradox of letting yourself feel all the feels – you have to be willing to let them go too.They want acknowledgment from their ex that the dumpee had been wronged, that their ex was an uncaring bitch, a vampire, a whore and deserves to suffer from every STD known to man.They want their ex to hurt just as much as they do – if not and now you just look like an impotent idiot.I repressed it as hard as I could and refused to even admit it was there.Small wonder that a relationship that lasted barely six months took me to recover from and left some unpleasant scars to go with it.I’ve seen this happen many times with other people as well – they’re determined to make some point about being mature or adult or reasonable and try to pretend that the obvious isn’t true.
So clearly, while it was obviously sad, I had absolutely no cause to be angry or hurt. I recovered quickly and moved on without bitterness or rancor. I was determined to be “mature” about it and crammed all of that pain and anger away and tried to pretend I wasn’t feeling it.Let me tell you, there’s nothing like the aftermath of a break-up to send your workout into Every breakup I’ve had usually results in my losing ten pounds in three weeks because I start hitting the gym like it owes me money.All of that anger and rage turns into energy, and I can’t sit still, so I end up running five miles before lifting weights with a fury that you don’t normally see outside of 80’s training montages.Neither does blaming your ex – or yourself, for that matter.Getting angry at being dumped can make you like – but holding onto it, nursing it or directing it at others doesn’t help anything. I see this a lot in people who feel that they’ve been wronged – that their significant other had somehow done them dirty.